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The Headstones, Tombstones & Memorial Markers Information Hub

Choosing a headstone, tombstone, or other memorial marker is both a practical and deeply personal decision. This hub covers the different types of grave markers, customization options, material choices, costs, and what to expect during the selection and installation process. Whether you’re pre-planning or navigating a recent loss, we’re here to help you make informed, meaningful choices.

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Key Things To Know

Choosing a memorial marker isn’t just about stone and engraving. It’s about capturing a story, honoring a life, and navigating a few practical steps along the way. Here are some essentials to keep in mind.

  • Types of Markers Vary Widely: Common options include upright headstones, flat grave markers, slant markers, bevel markers, and custom monuments. Cemeteries may have rules about what types are allowed, so check before you fall in love with a specific style.
  • Materials Affect Appearance and Longevity: Granite is the most popular choice because it’s durable and comes in many colors. Marble offers a classic look but weathers faster. Bronze is sleek and low maintenance, often used for flat markers.
  • Customization Options Go Beyond Names and Dates: Modern markers can include engraved photos, meaningful quotes, emblems, or even QR codes that link to a digital memorial page. If you want something unique, you can likely make it happen.
  • Cemetery Rules Can Limit Your Options: Some cemeteries restrict marker sizes, materials, or designs. Others have sections where only flat markers are allowed. Ask for the cemetery’s regulations before placing an order.
  • Prices Can Range From Hundreds to Thousands: Costs depend on the type, size, material, and level of customization. A basic flat granite marker might cost a few hundred dollars. A large upright monument with detailed carvings can run into the thousands.
  • Timing Matters: Markers aren’t usually installed immediately after burial. It can take weeks or even months to design, produce, and place one. Weather and cemetery schedules can also cause delays.
  • Installation Is a Separate Step: Even if you buy the marker from a monument company, the cemetery usually handles the installation. There may be a separate fee for this, so ask ahead.
  • Pre-Planning Makes a Difference: You can select and even install a memorial marker in advance, either for yourself or a loved one. Pre-planning can ease the decision-making burden later and often gives you more creative freedom.

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Questions to Ask When Ordering a Grave Marker

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Frequently Asked Questions

They’re often used interchangeably, but here’s the gist: headstone is the modern term for a marker placed at the head of a grave. Tombstone is older and more colloquial. Grave marker is a broader term that can include flat or upright memorials.

A basic flat granite marker might cost $300 to $800. Upright headstones can range from $1,000 to over $5,000, depending on size, material, and customization.

From design to delivery to installation, it can take 6 to 12 weeks or longer. Some delays are seasonal or due to cemetery schedules. Weather and granite supply issues can also affect timing.

Yes, many monument companies now offer online design tools. You can choose layout, wording, imagery, and even upload photos. Just be sure the final design meets the cemetery’s requirements.

They do. Some allow only flat markers, some restrict materials or designs. Always check the cemetery’s regulations before ordering to avoid expensive surprises.

Most cemeteries allow a wide range of symbols, but it’s best to confirm first. Common options include crosses, Stars of David, praying hands, military emblems, or custom cultural icons.

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