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Holiday Questions Checklist for Aging Parents

The holiday season is a special time to connect, share memories, and ensure our aging parents feel supported and cared for. As families gather, it can also be a valuable opportunity to have gentle, open conversations about health, daily needs, and future plans.

This Holiday Questions Checklist offers thoughtful prompts to guide these discussions, helping everyone feel informed and connected. Use this checklist to check in on your loved ones’ well-being, address any concerns, and create an environment of understanding and support that strengthens family bonds for the future.

  • How have you been feeling physically and emotionally?
  • Are you managing your medications easily?
  • Do you have any upcoming doctor appointments or medical needs?
  • Is there anything you’ve noticed about your health that worries you?
  • Are you satisfied with your healthcare and any support you’re receiving?

  • Do you feel safe and comfortable in your home?
  • Are there any areas in the house that feel challenging or unsafe?
  • Would any modifications (e.g., grab bars, non-slip mats) help with mobility or safety?
  • Are there any household tasks you’re finding difficult?
  • Do you have easy access to everything you need (e.g., food, medication, emergency contacts)?

  • Do you feel like you’re staying connected with friends and family?
  • Are you able to participate in activities or hobbies that you enjoy?
  • Do you feel lonely or isolated? Would you like more social support?
  • Are there any new activities or groups you’d like to join?
  • How are you feeling about the holiday season this year?

  • Are you comfortable managing your finances? Would you like any assistance?
  • Do you have an updated will or other important documents?
  • Is there any financial paperwork that needs organizing or updating?
  • Do you have important documents in a place where family members can access them if needed?
  • Would you like to discuss any other financial or legal matters with us?

  • Do you feel you have the right support for daily activities (e.g., cooking, cleaning, shopping)?
  • Are you finding it easy to get around the house and the neighborhood?
  • Would you like help with transportation to appointments, errands, or social activities?
  • Do you have any difficulty with personal care tasks (e.g., bathing, dressing)?
  • Is there anything that would make your daily routine easier or more enjoyable?

  • Are you comfortable using your phone or computer to stay connected?
  • Would you like help setting up video calls, emails, or other communication tools?
  • Do you have any trouble accessing accounts or remembering passwords?
  • Are there any devices or services (e.g., emergency alert systems) you’d like assistance with?
  • Would you enjoy seeing family photos, videos, or digital memories more frequently?

  • Are there any family stories or traditions you’d like to share with us?
  • Are there any items in the home that have special meaning or memories?
  • Would you like to record or write down stories or family history?
  • Do you have any keepsakes or heirlooms you’d like to pass down?
  • Are there values, beliefs, or lessons you want future generations to remember?

  • Is there anything about the future that concerns you?
  • Are there any upcoming changes or plans you’d like to discuss?
  • Do you have preferences for how you’d like family to support you as you age?
  • Are there any conversations or topics you’d like to revisit regularly?
  • Is there anything we can do to support you better, now or in the future?

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