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Checklist: Questions to Ask When Selecting a Death Doula

This checklist is designed to help you find a death doula who aligns with your needs and values, ensuring compassionate and professional support during this important time.

  • What training or certifications have you completed in end-of-life care?
  • Are you a member of any professional organizations, such as INELDA or NEDA?
  • Do you have experience with specific cultural or spiritual end-of-life practices?

  • How long have you been working as a death doula?
  • What kinds of clients and situations have you worked with?
  • Can you provide references or testimonials from previous clients?

  • What services do you provide? (e.g., emotional support, legacy planning, advance directives, grief support)
  • Do you assist with funeral or memorial planning?
  • Can you work alongside hospice or other medical providers?
  • Are there services you don’t provide?

  • What is your availability (hours, days, weekends)?
  • How do you handle emergency or last-minute needs?
  • Are you available for virtual consultations or support?
  • How far are you willing to travel, and is there a travel fee?

  • How would you describe your philosophy around death and dying?
  • How do you approach emotional and spiritual support for clients?
  • What role do you play in family dynamics during the end-of-life process?

  • What are your rates (hourly or package)?
  • Do you offer sliding scale fees or payment plans?
  • Can I use HSA/FSA funds to pay for your services?
  • Are there any additional costs, such as travel or materials?

  • How do you communicate with clients and families (email, phone, in-person)?
  • How often will you provide updates or check-ins?
  • Are you comfortable working with hospice, medical staff, or spiritual advisors?

  • What led you to become a death doula?
  • Why do you feel passionate about this work?
  • How do you build trust and rapport with clients and families?

  • Are you experienced with specific end-of-life needs, such as dementia, cancer, or sudden illness?
  • Do you offer services tailored to children or other special populations?
  • Can you accommodate cultural, religious, or spiritual preferences?

  • Do you offer grief counseling or support after the death?
  • Can you help with organizing memorials or other post-death rituals?
  • Do you provide resources or referrals for ongoing support?

  • What is your policy on cancellations or rescheduling?
  • How do you maintain confidentiality and respect privacy?
  • Do you carry liability insurance?

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