Share This Checklist

Checklist for Writing a Personal Obituary

Writing a personal obituary is a thoughtful way to celebrate a loved one’s life and legacy. It provides an opportunity to highlight their achievements, values, and cherished memories. Use this checklist to craft a heartfelt tribute that honors their unique story while providing essential details for the community.

  • Include the full name, including any nicknames or titles.
  • Provide the date and place of birth.
  • Mention the date and location of their passing.

  • Summarize key milestones, such as education, career, and achievements.
  • Mention significant life events like marriage, children, or military service.
  • Share details about their passions, hobbies, and interests.

  • List immediate family members, including spouses, children, and siblings.
  • Mention predeceased family members as a way to honor their memory.
  • Include extended family members, if appropriate.

  • Describe their character, values, and impact on others.
  • Highlight community involvement, volunteer work, or causes they supported.
  • Share a memorable story, quote, or personal anecdote that reflects their essence.

  • Include the date, time, and location of the funeral or memorial service.
  • Note any special requests, such as dress code or flower preferences.
  • Mention options for donations in their memory, if applicable.

  • Incorporate meaningful quotes, poems, or scriptures that resonate with their life.
  • Share a message of gratitude to those who supported the family.
  • Include a phrase or sentiment that captures their personality and legacy.

  • Arrange the information in a clear and chronological order.
  • Avoid lengthy details or overly technical terms.
  • Use simple language to make the obituary accessible to all readers.

  • Double-check all names, dates, and locations for accuracy.
  • Review grammar, spelling, and punctuation to ensure clarity.
  • Ask a trusted friend or family member to review it for feedback.

  • Submit the obituary to local newspapers and online memorial sites.
  • Share it on social media or family group chats to reach a broader audience.
  • Include it in a printed program for the funeral or memorial service.

  • Save a copy for family keepsakes and future generations.
  • Consider creating a digital memorial page to share stories and photos.
  • Reflect on how the obituary serves as a lasting tribute to their life and impact.

Save Time With Checklists

Buried in Work offers several checklists to save you time.

Get The Checklists

Leave Your Heirs The Gift Of Organization With a CLEAR Kit

Did you know?

The average estate takes 570 hours to administer.

Other Useful Checklists

Related Content